May 2, 2017

Stay Single

Stay single until you meet the girl whose love heals you, changes you and makes you better. 

The girl you look at with a confidence you’ve never known before.

The girl you’d proudly introduce your parents to. 

Stay single until you meet the girl who makes you act fast because you can’t stand the thought of her being with anyone else.

The type of girl you can’t imagine hurting or disappointing.

Stay single until you meet the type of girl who believes in you and your dreams and is in your corner entirely.

The one who builds you up constantly and pushes you to be more and do more.

The one who is driven and motivates you to do more.

The one who forces you to take chances in your life.

But the greatest of all is taking a chance on her. 

Stay single until you meet the girl who scares you a little.

The one who makes you feel ways you haven’t before.

The one you think about at 2 Am as you wonder, “what is happening to me?”

Stay single until you meet the girl whose face you see when you listen to certain songs, that used to not mean much to you.

The one who makes you smile and laugh in ways you forget.

The one who makes you forget about pain from the past.

Stay single until you meet the girl who is genuine and has a heart of gold. 

The one who beats to her own drum and is authentic.

The one whose touch heals you.

Whose kiss makes you want more.

Whose presence makes you enjoy every moment.

The one who makes you want to be a better man.

Stay single until you meet the girl you have to try a little harder to impress because everything in the past you’ve done with others won’t work.

The one who makes you want to take it slow in a generation that tells us to rush into the things.

The girl who makes you nervous before a first date.

The one who won’t take you for granted and will always says thank you.

Stay single until you meet the girl who meets you half way.

The one who accepts your shortcomings and flaws.

Stay single until you meet the girl you can look at and see a good mother you can raise a family with.

The one you want to build a life with.

The one who can hold her own and doesn’t need you but chooses you. 

Stay single until you meet the girl who would do anything for you.

The one who loves you deeply and isn’t afraid of it.

Stay single until you meet the girl you want to spoil.

The one you want to spend Sunday mornings with.

The one you can look at sleeping and think she’s the most beautiful girl in the world.

Stay single until you find a girl who still gives you butterflies when she walks in a room, as you say to everyone around you, “that’s her.”

The one you look at and think, “finally.”

Until then stay single. 

November 5, 2016

No one falls in love by choice,
it is by chance. 

No one stays in love by chance, 
it is by work. 

And no one falls out of love by chance, 
it is by choice.

October 12, 2016

你不是真正的快乐


人群中哭着   你只想变成透明的颜色
你再也不会梦或痛或心动了
你已经决定了   你已经决定了

你   静静   忍着   紧紧把昨天在拳心握着
而回忆越是甜   就是   越伤人了
越是在   手心留下
密密麻麻   深深浅浅的刀割

你不是真正的快乐
你的笑只是你穿的保护色
你决定不恨了   也决定不爱了
把你的灵魂   关在永远   锁上的躯壳

这世界   笑了   于是你合群的一起笑了
当生存是规则   不是   你的选择
于是你   含着眼泪
飘飘荡荡   跌跌撞撞的走着

你不是真正的快乐
你的笑只是你穿的保护色
你决定不恨了   也决定不爱了
把你的灵魂   关在永远   锁上的躯壳

你不是真正的快乐
你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
我站在你左侧   却像隔着银河
难道就真的   抱着遗憾   一直到老了
然后才后悔着

你不是真正的快乐
你的笑只是你穿的保护色
你决定不恨了   也决定不爱了
把你的灵魂   关在永远   锁上的躯壳

你不是真正的快乐
你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
我站在你左侧   却像隔着银河
难道就真的   抱着遗憾   一直到老了

你值得真正的快乐
你应该脱下你穿的保护色
为什么失去了   还要被惩罚呢
能不能就让   悲伤全部   结束在此刻
重新开始活着

July 3, 2016

Me Before You


其实很想看这部电影很久了,
还记得它刚上映的时候,
有好多人纷纷第一时间都去了电影院,
留言都是说着这部戏很感动。。
可是还是坚持要等到可以下载的时候,
在家好好的欣赏。。

看到了男主角最后选择了死亡,
我在想,
也许对他而言,
比生命更有价值的,
也只有尊严了吧?
男主角最终没有为女主角而留下来,
那是因为他忠于自己的决定,
想要为自己的人生做出选择。
很多人会说,
男主角其实不够爱女主角,
可是我却觉得这是他对她的另一种爱;
在他已经不能再为她付出的爱情中,
他的爱也只能是 '我希望你好好的'。

相爱的时候,
我们太容易把 '你想做什么我都支持你'
这句话放在口边,
可是我们却时时刻刻有意无意的在改变对方;
原来,
我们都已忘记,
爱一个人,就应该爱他的所有;
尊重他的决定,
让他为自己的行为负责。
即使那个决定你不认同,
或是你无法接受;
但如果能放下自己的观点,
从对方的角度出发,
这也算是一种爱人的方式吧?

深爱着一个人,
不一定要占有;
可能默默的守护着对方,
保护他,陪伴着他,
对他,对自己来说,
也许是最好的方式吧。。

这个故事也在告诉着我们,
人生中,
从来都没有完美的句号,
但如果能留住最美好的回忆,
让两个人都能笑着做回自己,
也许,
这也算是一辈子的爱了。。

Photograph - Ed Sheeran
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Loving can hurt
Loving can hurt sometimes
But it's the only thing that I know
When it gets hard
You know it can get hard sometimes
It is the only thing that makes us feel alive

We keep this love in a photograph
We made these memories for ourselves
Where our eyes are never closing
Hearts are never broken
Times forever frozen still

So you can keep me
Inside the pocket
Of your ripped jeans
Holdin' me closer
'Til our eyes meet
You won't ever be alone
Wait for me to come home

Loving can heal
Loving can mend your soul
And it's the only thing that I know (know)
I swear it will get easier
Remember that with every piece of ya
And it's the only thing we take with us when we die

We keep this love in this photograph
We made these memories for ourselves
Where our eyes are never closing
Our hearts were never broken
Times forever frozen still

So you can keep me
Inside the pocket
Of your ripped jeans
Holdin' me closer
'Til our eyes meet
You won't ever be alone

And if you hurt me
That's OK, baby, only words bleed
Inside these pages you just hold me
And I won't ever let you go

Wait for me to come home 

Oh you can fit me
Inside the necklace you got when you were 16
Next to your heartbeat
Where I should be
Keep it deep within your soul

And if you hurt me
Well, that's OK, baby, only words bleed
Inside these pages you just hold me
And I won't ever let you go

When I'm away
I will remember how you kissed me
Under the lamppost
Back on 6th street
Hearing you whisper through the phone,
"Wait for me to come home"

曾经写给某人的一首歌,
很喜欢这首歌的歌词,
每当电台播放,
都会不由自主的回想以前的事,
现在的我们也只能把回忆放进照片里...
We keep this love in this photograph
We made these memories for ourselves
Where our eyes are never closing
Our hearts were never broken
Times forever frozen still

March 30, 2016

打击

今天从妈那边听到了一个坏消息,
一整个下午都是浑浑噩噩的度过,
心里五味杂陈的心情不断的涌上来。。
原本以为我可以很坚强,
但是一提起这件事,
不争气的眼泪不停地一直掉下来,
可是自己也知道在父母面前要坚强起来。。
还是要坚持微笑。。
希望这一切的一切都会顺顺利利,
这一天也想了很多东西,
其实人的一生,
人就算没有很多的金银珠宝,
吃得粗茶淡饭也没有关系;
只要一家人能够健健康康平平安安,
那就是幸福了,
它就是那么简单。
愿佛主保佑,阿弥陀佛。

February 27, 2016

未完成的爱情



  • 未完成的爱情
  • ============
  • 再遇见你眼神轻轻交集
  • 笑着我已想不起多少年过去
  • 曾多努力才能找回自己
  • 直到漂泊的青春已换几次风景
  • 你还是像过去一样停在我心底
  • 只是时间不容许再靠近
  • 我还是像过去一样一个人弹琴
  • 每当想起你还是不离不弃
  • 却学会接受人生有时候没那么幸运
  • 如果我不曾认识你不曾伤心
  • 现在的我不会爱上听雨
  • 数着落下的每一滴结晶
  • 好像看见你在的身影
  • 谢谢你来我生命里给我真心
  • 尽管当时我们都太年轻
  • 那年一段未完成的爱情
  • 让我成为更好的自己勇敢前行
  • 我放开你自己留在原地
  • 你往更远的地方直到回不去
  • 你说的话我一直都相信
  • 只是再也不是你亲自为我证明
  • 你还是像过去一样停在我心底
  • 只是时间不容许再靠近
  • 我还是像过去一样一个人弹琴
  • 每当想起你还是不离不弃
  • 却学会接受人生有时候没那么幸运
  • 如果我不曾认识你不曾伤心
  • 现在的我不会爱上听雨
  • 数着落下的每一滴结晶
  • 好像看见你在的身影
  • 谢谢你来我生命里给我真心
  • 尽管当时我们都太年轻
  • 那年一段未完成的爱情
  • 让我成为更好的自己
  • 如果我不曾认识你不曾伤心
  • 现在的我不会爱上听雨
  • 数着落下的每一滴结晶
  • 好像看见你在的身影
  • 谢谢你来我生命里给我真心
  • 尽管当时我们都太年轻
  • 让我成为更好的自己勇敢前行
  • -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
  • 最近疯狂地喜欢上这一首歌,
  • 听到这首歌的时候,
  • 心里五味杂陈的心情时不时都会涌上来。
  • 当天的选择,
  • 都影响着我们很多吧?
  • 只能说,
  • 当我们在那一刻选择应该走的路,
  • 就应该要预见这些结果,
  • 也只能选择接受吧?
  • 祝福大家,
  • 都过得幸福❤️
  • January 28, 2016

    不开心

    今天心情真的很不好,
    可是又不懂该向谁说。。
    很多话都憋在心里。。

    可是想说的是,
    这世界上没有任何一个人是天生亏欠另一个人的。。
    所以当你自己不开心的时候,
    不要把自己的不开心发泄在别人身上。。
    因为,没有人是欠你的。。