我们经常把「如果」挂在嘴边，
面对仇人時会說︰如果沒认识他，就好了。
失恋時會說︰如果当初沒开始，今日就不会伤心。
如果……如果……
当说「如果」的時候，其实在后悔，
后悔在「如果」发生之前，不好好的争取机会，
尽力做到自己不会后悔，
等同自动放弃了個補求的机会，
待事情再也沒有转圈余地，便自怨自艾，
说出「如果」這个毫无建樹的假設，
卻不会想问題的症结的所在，
与其有時間作出這些毫无建樹的假設，
倒不如把時間用來補求吧！
某程度上，会說「如果」的人是悲观的，
悲观到只懂得向坏的一方想，躲在一角，
为自己涂上一层保护色，在保护色下暗自后悔，
心中不断說「如果」后悔话。
有些人更极端，除了涂保护色，
更会为自己筑起一個肉眼看不見的巢，
躲在里头，不肯与任何人交心，
只因为怕后悔。
大部份時間，
我們都游走在后悔与如果之間，
想不后悔，又沒有勇氣挪開「如果」的存在，
为什么勇氣会消失得荡然无存？
是在「如果」面前吧！
明知道「如果」不存在世上，
卻敗倒在它面前，失敗得连反击的余地的都沒有，
只得苦苦的自怨自艾。
勇氣勇氣，就是因为「如果」而飄走了，
消失了，再也不會出現了，
你..那個喜欢说「如果」的话的你，
舍得勇氣因「如果」而不見了嗎？
世上沒如果，
不甘心、不想后悔，
务必好好珍惜眼前的每個机会，
机会远走了，一去不复返；
机会会在指逢间流走，一去不复返，
不珍惜机会的人，永远只能当
弱者的角色。
March 14, 2010
March 10, 2010
Satisfied
actually i start blogging about my langkawi trip since last week,
but cant even upload any photos of mine throughout the whole week.
and finally
PROUDLY PRESENTS......
thought that this year's cny celebration will be boring as usual,
since im going back to my hometown ---- Perlis
which doesn't have much entertainment, based on what i know.
but this year's celebration,
i really realized that my hometown got lotsa things to do, lol.
we went for sing k sessions, movies during the week of cny.
hangouts, yumchas, chit-chatting, even gossiping sessions at my hometown!!!
and i knew that perlis is much more advanced then mei mei's hometown,
because i have cinemas and karaokes here!
but still,
as for me,
cny is still a lame thing to celebrate.
because every year relatives gathering together,
having meals, gambling and chit-chatting.
seems like every year keep on repeating the same thing to do.
it is BORING FOR ME!
we snap some photos when we are having hangouts:
whole bunch of people went to see
72 Tenants Of Prosperity that time
me and my relatives
this year,
we went langkawi during chor 5 of cny too!!!
bought lotsa chocolates this time,
me and qing, in the ferry to langkawi.
me and my relative, chee.
went to a beach,
which i din remember that name,
but it was perfectly awsome there.
thats why i like to shoot on scenes rather than people.
because it is just look nice no matter we shoot by which angle.
the beach
our group shooting
and again
what are they looking at??
ooo
hotels built near the beach
hope that i can own a house here too
busy taking photos
we went to the pantai pasir hitam fot our next destination.
pantai pasir hitam,
obviously that the beach is covered with black sand.
but i dont really saw that much black sand there.
we wanna go for the cable car in the beginning,
but the place is over-crowded,
and tourists queueing everywhere.
at last,
we decided to give up and went for shopping there.
do you know where it is??
me and chee
me and ping
me and qing
us
it is HOT photoshooting inside the toilet
we went cenang beach after the cable car thingy,
and the beach looks awsome!!!
but i din join others for banana boat,
because i forgot to bring any towel or clothes to change after those water activities, aiks.
im pretty tired playing at the beach that time also,
due to the freaking HOT weather and we reached home quite late the day before we went langkawi.
most of them went for the banana boat, rm10 per person. cheap eh?
i loved this photo very much because i like the colours of the umbrellas!
it looks nice in the photos man!
you can go thai spa at the beach, but sounds weird?
this is the place where we rest, including me. ^^
i spotted many tourists at the beach with bikinis, lol.
we have our photoshoot again at the beach while we are resting,
because it is freaking HOT and BORING man!!!
i dunno why am I posing that...
again and again
me and apple
she really loves photoshoot
did you realise? chee and ping looks alike. because they are twins!
this looks like and advertisement for Jack 'N Jill, lol.
in the ferry
sunset in the ferry
everyone is tired enough
but cant even upload any photos of mine throughout the whole week.
and finally
v
v
v
v
v
v
v
v
v
PROUDLY PRESENTS......
thought that this year's cny celebration will be boring as usual,
since im going back to my hometown ---- Perlis
which doesn't have much entertainment, based on what i know.
but this year's celebration,
i really realized that my hometown got lotsa things to do, lol.
we went for sing k sessions, movies during the week of cny.
hangouts, yumchas, chit-chatting, even gossiping sessions at my hometown!!!
and i knew that perlis is much more advanced then mei mei's hometown,
because i have cinemas and karaokes here!
but still,
as for me,
cny is still a lame thing to celebrate.
because every year relatives gathering together,
having meals, gambling and chit-chatting.
seems like every year keep on repeating the same thing to do.
it is BORING FOR ME!
we snap some photos when we are having hangouts:
this year,
we went langkawi during chor 5 of cny too!!!
bought lotsa chocolates this time,
went to a beach,
which i din remember that name,
but it was perfectly awsome there.
thats why i like to shoot on scenes rather than people.
because it is just look nice no matter we shoot by which angle.
we went to the pantai pasir hitam fot our next destination.
pantai pasir hitam,
obviously that the beach is covered with black sand.
but i dont really saw that much black sand there.
we wanna go for the cable car in the beginning,
but the place is over-crowded,
and tourists queueing everywhere.
at last,
we decided to give up and went for shopping there.
we went cenang beach after the cable car thingy,
and the beach looks awsome!!!
but i din join others for banana boat,
because i forgot to bring any towel or clothes to change after those water activities, aiks.
im pretty tired playing at the beach that time also,
due to the freaking HOT weather and we reached home quite late the day before we went langkawi.
I WAS TOO TIRED TO DO ANYTHING AT THE BEACH
cenang beach
it looks nice in the photos man!
we have our photoshoot again at the beach while we are resting,
because it is freaking HOT and BORING man!!!
March 2, 2010
不要把曖昧關係當作愛情
你們認識很久，
他天天朝九晚五噓寒問暖的電話比你的鐘錶還要準時，
在朋友眼裏你們很登對,
每次聚會他做你的護花使者責無旁貸,
你也發現自己對他有了些些的依賴！！
他總是不經意的拍拍你的肩很寵愛的揉揉你的髮，
朋友關於你們之間無傷大雅的玩笑讓你覺得很甜蜜
這是個曖昧橫行的年代,感情出現的第三個種類,
比友情深 比愛情淺
游走於二者的邊緣
這就是曖昧,
曖昧是，比好朋友再親一點，但比情人遠一點。 曖昧是，你會常常在MSN等他線上。
當他幾天沒有線上，你就會有些擔心。
曖昧是，你會不時去他的BLOG看看有沒有更新；
而且你會留意字裏行間，他對你有沒有什麼暗示。
曖昧是, 有感覺，然而，
這種感覺不足以叫你們切切實實地發展一段正式的關係。
曖昧是, 明白人生有太多的無奈，現實有太多的限制。
你知道沒有可能，但又捨不得放手。
曖昧是, 有進一步的衝動，卻沒有進一步的勇氣。
曖昧是，他不是你的情人，
但似乎他比你的情人更關心你和瞭解你。
曖昧是，雖然他不是你的情人，
但他卻會對你說：你對我是十分重要的。
曖昧是，你感冒時有一個會在晚上打電話來，特意提醒你服藥，
叫你蓋好被子早點睡的普通朋友。
曖昧是，每當他提及他的另一半時，你會萬箭穿心。
曖昧是, 為了逃避背叛的罪惡感。
曖昧是, 甜津津又同時酸溜溜的。
往往從未開始，已叫人不安，患得患失。
曖昧是，別人以為你們在搞地下情時，你會沾沾自喜。
曖昧是，別人問你們是否戀愛中，你張口結舌。
曖昧是，常常掙扎表不表白。
你怕表白之後，
你既得不到一個情人，卻又失去了一個知心朋友
曖昧是，兩個人都會互相猜想。
他是不是已經暗示了什麼？我是不是自作多情？
曖昧是，每天大家都會聊MSN，
會互傳手機短訊，無規律地偶然約會。
曖昧是，你很想多走一步，但又怕會嚇怕了他。
你會很小心流露自己的感情。
曖昧是，除了情人節之外，其他的節日，大家都交換禮物。
曖昧是，見到他，你會心跳。見不到他時，你會掛念他。
你滿心歡喜 你開始心懷期待，
就連做夢都會笑出來，可是他就是什麼也不說，
你對自己說等等再等等，
直到有一天你看到他身邊有了另一個身影，
你震驚 "不是...這是....我是.....？"
睛天霹靂,他說他從沒對你有過這種想法，他說這是你的誤會.
傷心嗎? 難過嗎? 痛苦嗎?
只是....只是誰讓你把曖昧當愛情呢？
曖昧就你看完文章後想到的那個人......
他天天朝九晚五噓寒問暖的電話比你的鐘錶還要準時，
在朋友眼裏你們很登對,
每次聚會他做你的護花使者責無旁貸,
你也發現自己對他有了些些的依賴！！
他總是不經意的拍拍你的肩很寵愛的揉揉你的髮，
朋友關於你們之間無傷大雅的玩笑讓你覺得很甜蜜
這是個曖昧橫行的年代,感情出現的第三個種類,
比友情深 比愛情淺
游走於二者的邊緣
這就是曖昧,
曖昧是，比好朋友再親一點，但比情人遠一點。 曖昧是，你會常常在MSN等他線上。
當他幾天沒有線上，你就會有些擔心。
曖昧是，你會不時去他的BLOG看看有沒有更新；
而且你會留意字裏行間，他對你有沒有什麼暗示。
曖昧是, 有感覺，然而，
這種感覺不足以叫你們切切實實地發展一段正式的關係。
曖昧是, 明白人生有太多的無奈，現實有太多的限制。
你知道沒有可能，但又捨不得放手。
曖昧是, 有進一步的衝動，卻沒有進一步的勇氣。
曖昧是，他不是你的情人，
但似乎他比你的情人更關心你和瞭解你。
曖昧是，雖然他不是你的情人，
但他卻會對你說：你對我是十分重要的。
曖昧是，你感冒時有一個會在晚上打電話來，特意提醒你服藥，
叫你蓋好被子早點睡的普通朋友。
曖昧是，每當他提及他的另一半時，你會萬箭穿心。
曖昧是, 為了逃避背叛的罪惡感。
曖昧是, 甜津津又同時酸溜溜的。
往往從未開始，已叫人不安，患得患失。
曖昧是，別人以為你們在搞地下情時，你會沾沾自喜。
曖昧是，別人問你們是否戀愛中，你張口結舌。
曖昧是，常常掙扎表不表白。
你怕表白之後，
你既得不到一個情人，卻又失去了一個知心朋友
曖昧是，兩個人都會互相猜想。
他是不是已經暗示了什麼？我是不是自作多情？
曖昧是，每天大家都會聊MSN，
會互傳手機短訊，無規律地偶然約會。
曖昧是，你很想多走一步，但又怕會嚇怕了他。
你會很小心流露自己的感情。
曖昧是，除了情人節之外，其他的節日，大家都交換禮物。
曖昧是，見到他，你會心跳。見不到他時，你會掛念他。
你滿心歡喜 你開始心懷期待，
就連做夢都會笑出來，可是他就是什麼也不說，
你對自己說等等再等等，
直到有一天你看到他身邊有了另一個身影，
你震驚 "不是...這是....我是.....？"
睛天霹靂,他說他從沒對你有過這種想法，他說這是你的誤會.
傷心嗎? 難過嗎? 痛苦嗎?
只是....只是誰讓你把曖昧當愛情呢？
曖昧就你看完文章後想到的那個人......
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